09 May

How Do You Get a Girlfriend? Part 1

Read more about how to find a girlfriend here.

If you have been trying to hook up with a girl for a while and it’s just not happening, be sure to arrive at that concert with a woman on your arm and you might find that the tables will turn. While everyone loves a good mystery man, real women love a guy who shows his good and bad side, with a side of quirky thrown in for good measure. In reality, women want a guy that they can be themselves around and that they can feel safe with, regardless of what they look like.

You have the option of making it a group get-together or a date. Love Life Solved enables good guys to become successful with the women they like – without acting like someone they are not. Touching is by far the best way to show a woman that you want her.

You’ll start giving off the vibe that you don’t need women to make your life complete. You’ll take more risks, find approaching and talking to girls less daunting and won’t worry about the consequences. Talking about exes or girls who’ve slipped through your fingers – If you’re negative about past experiences with women you’ll sound bitter. If you’re positive you’ll sound like you’re still pining for someone. In either case it’s best you avoid talk of “lovers lost” completely.

If you have never had a girlfriend, this is a great time to start dating. If you dated throughout high school but moved away to go to college, chances are you will want to find a new girlfriend that goes to your school. Getting a girlfriend takes time and patience, but if you find a good match, the process will be more enjoyable than stressful. Forget about sex. Just invite her for the sake of spending more time with her.

There are 7 billion people on Earth, and 3.5 billion of them are women. Of those, 2 billion are potentially datable. You do the math. Getting a girlfriend is easily attainable, if you have the right outlook and techniques. The other mistake many men make is to create a relationship with the girl in their heads before one exists in real life.

• Keep writing her little love notes, or buy her a doughnut on the way home, or fix something she’s been meaning to get to.
• If you deny yourself exercise, you’re giving everyone your time but yourself.
• If it is, start small by just getting to know someone.
• Women really don’t like lazy men, so someone who is ambitious and motivated to achieve things will instantly catch their attention.

If women want to feel attractive but not let it dominate their personality, and they want to be listened to and respected, they obviously want a man who gives them these feelings. But you can still give yourself a bit of head start by knowing what you want in a girlfriend and what you don’t want. To really accomplish this, you have to be willing to follow every step and not quit. Don’t get discouraged. You’ll get results.

Everybody has feelings and emotions – that’s something you know you’ll have in common. Try to connect using those as a basis, and you will almost always find common ground.

6 – Try Putting It In A Fortune Cookie

Don’t be shy because I promise she is going to love whatever you write. It’s the thought that counts, and when you are opening yourself up to being vulnerable to her, you can’t lose, not if she’s the right girl for you anyway. Work on the problem at hand and take women OUT of the equation. Which means you need to explore the reasons why you’re introverted. Most likely it’s because of social communication skills, lack of self-esteem, not feeling confident enough around others, and the mindset that you NEED to DO something to get noticed… and you don’t have to DO anything.

Why do people rush to the supermarket in a drought? It’s because the lack of available resources has created a need. Being available is undesirable. As I discussed earlier, you need to fully avoid being that needy guy who immediately swoops in with a text and makes it look as if he has nothing else to do. Yet, if you just talk to women in a friendly neutral type of way and try to have serious conversations all the time, then you’re not going to be making most of the women that you meet feel a spark for you.