05 Jun

How to get a girlfriend: 15 tips alpha males won’t tell you

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Why is she beautiful to you? Can you imagine her as your girlfriend? Wait until you’re in the midst of conversation to bring up any compliments, so you’ve had time to figure out what they are.

Yet, for the most part when you meet a woman, if you want her to be your girlfriend, then get to a first kiss, have sex with her, start dating and you’ll naturally get into a relationship with her. If you’re looking to turn that woman into your girlfriend, then you’ll need to be interesting enough to want her to get to know you more.

Perhaps even more so than confidence, ambition in a man is attractive. Women really don’t like lazy men, so someone who is ambitious and motivated to achieve things will instantly catch their attention. There is obviously a fine line; women don’t want a workaholic boyfriend. But it’s really good to be passionate about things (not just work) and if you’re motivated to achieve things, women will instantly find you more attractive and interesting.

Remember, you’re still qualifying her. If they broke up for a stupid reason, or she doesn’t sound like she’s being 100% honest about what happened, alarm bells may rightfully be going off.

However, if they are just girls you liked sexually but didn’t make an effort to show interest in, then the friendship is false. You’re just settling for it to stay in her vicinity with the vague hope of escalating your relationship at a later stage. The friend zone can be a destructive place for everyone involved. You’re considering a fully-council-taxed member of the friend zone when a girl you’re interested in starts to come to you with her problems with other guys. If you deny yourself exercise, you’re giving everyone your time but yourself.

This is incredibly attractive to women because it shows her you respect and love yourself. You are sure of yourself and adamant about getting what you want. Zoos are great because you never run out of conversation topics and things to do.

• Telling someone you love them is a personal, special affair.
• You may freelance and not be around people much.
• Be careful.

These allow you to throw out a comment or question that really gets a conversation going in the direction you want it to go. Then, pick your moment when she’s on her own or she isn’t in the middle of a conversation, and choose whether to approach alone or with a friend if you are too nervous to go on your own. This is actually a fairly easy step, since you probably know where to meet women because you know where women are (everywhere). This is a natural extension of the last step.

They meet an attractive woman, they start to fall in love with her right away and they really want to get to be her boyfriend. You don’t need to ask her questions like, “So, are you looking for a boyfriend right now? ” because a woman will almost always say “No” or say that she’s not sure or say that she’s just enjoying life and has no plans on settling down. You might be able to get lucky every now and again when you meet a woman and you don’t have to do anything and she likes you, but that is not a consistent reliable approach to get a girlfriend.

Don’t be fooled by anyone who tries to talk you out of having a girlfriend.

Some of the tactics above can backfire big-time. Start a list with the girl you like about the things you have in common. When you get to the end of the line, figure out a clever way to make the next number all about you asking her out. Perhaps you both love hot chocolate with marshmallows. Next, you need to hunt her down and write the question somewhere on the hot chocolate when you hand it to her.

Just don’t do it, please. You’ve got to use your imagination to make this one work. Ask the girl to meet you somewhere and have someone, perhaps a little kid, deliver your message for you.

Or maybe you will, who am I to judge? If you want to meet girls, most likely you’re going to have to leave your house. I know, it’s a big step, but it’s a crucial one. It’s much easier to meet people when you leave your house.