06 Jul

How to get a girlfriend in 10 simple steps

Read more about how to get a girlfriend here.

A common mistake that guys make when trying to get themselves a girlfriend is that they meet a woman, feel sexually attracted to her and immediately begin to want to have her as a girlfriend (i.e. he is smitten, falls in love at first sight). Now I’m not saying you need to go out and tell a girl you’re attracted to her (although that does work when said in the right tone, see our article on how to tell a girl you like her), but instead don’t play it safe.

When you first started dating I bet you couldn’t keep your hands off her, well don’t stop that now just because you’ve gotten used to each other. Keep the love alive and if it feels repetitive try new things, open communication is the key. If you want a girl to know you want her, all you’ve got to do is put a little effort into tracking her down and asking her.

Having some confidence in yourself will get you so far. And once you get the girl of your dreams, read this article on how to be real-life relationship goals.

Set The Girlfriend and Boyfriend Tone Immediately

In the back of her mind, she’s looking for someone who knows and gets on with people, and in her conscious mind, she’s looking for someone fun and exciting that sparks her natural curiosity. You may freelance and not be around people much.

• You first need to learn how to attract women, then how to maintain the interest of women and then how to keep a relationship together and then deepen the love, respect and attraction that you feel for each other.
• The classic techniques of extended eye contact, smiling and compliments work well.
• So a beautiful girl has caught your eye and you’ve been speaking a bit, now is the time to ask her out.

Finally, when the conversation is winding down, tell her you hope you can text again soon. Don’t leave the conversation until you’ve at least implied you want to do this again, and soon. Don’t sweat about how to compliment a girl, it’s easy.

If you want the hottest girl you’ve ever met, who you haven’t met yet to be your girlfriend sometime in the future, stay here. I’m not saying you have to fuck a bunch of chics and add them to your number, merely stating UNTIL you are ready – do NOT commit to one woman. Do NOT chase ONE woman.

If you’re not a talker, think up a list of possible topics — TV shows, music, school — before the date, Piorkowski says. Pick an activity where you won’t have to talk the entire time, like a movie or a sporting event, Kalish says. Remember, dating is all about talking.

33 – Point Out Similarities

Don’t be shy because I promise she is going to love whatever you write. It’s the thought that counts, and when you are opening yourself up to being vulnerable to her, you can’t lose, not if she’s the right girl for you anyway. Work on the problem at hand and take women OUT of the equation.

Hey I’m Pete – (Peter White) – I run whydoguys.com for women and DiaLteG TM for guys like you. I know WOMEN and what it’s going to take to get you the woman of your dreams. It’s a lot easier than you think – so stop thinking so much and start DOING what it takes because the answer you seek is right here.